"Insulted" Words - CliftonStrengths Clues To Your Hot Buttons
34 Strengths: How They Might Get Insulted At A Values Level
Achiever - Things not getting to the finish line — you get satisfaction when things are complete, so every "restart" can feel like a punch in the arm
Activator - Analysis paralysis — you get satisfaction from starting things, so every delay and moment of bureaucracy can make you feel like an animal trapped in a cage
Adaptability - Same old, same old / the inability to be in the moment — you get satisfaction by reacting to the here-and-now, so every rehashing of the past can feel like an anchor in the water when you're trying to drive a speedboat
Analytical - Impractical, "head in the clouds" thinking; a culture that appreciates the outlandish, a constant 30,000-foot view, or rushed decisions; consistently having to deal with unexplored assumptions; the lack of prudence and truth-seeking
Arranger - Obsolete processes; naysayers; the inability to change things — you get satisfaction when things are changing and adapting to meet current needs, so old rules, obsolete technologies, and stubborn hangers-on will be tough for you to work with
Belief - Pushing on ethical boundaries, or worse, being asked to breach your moral standards; obsession with money and power; others constantly breaking rules or feeding egos; an insincere approach to business — you get satisfaction when values and purpose are honored, so being around selfish acts can make you feel like you're working in the wrong office
Command - Wishy-washy opinions, or conflicts on the team being avoided; others constantly choosing the middle ground or emphasizing compromise — your style of collaboration does not require everyone to agree, it's more about removing ambiguity
Communication - Big doses of solitary time; focusing solely on data when a story needs a voice; the inability to interact — you connect people and ideas by using words, so squelching verbal expression will make you feel small
Competition - Everyone being given a participation trophy; scorecards or metrics being hidden or only discussed in 1:1s; a "fair is equal" environment; the inability to know if you're excelling — you get satisfaction from getting high rewards for high achievement, so if everyone gets the "peanut butter spreading of rewards," you will lose motivation
Connectedness - Possibilities being shut down / being told there's only one rigid path; being isolated from other humans; focus on facts, figures, and data rather than connecting the human race into the picture — you get satisfaction when things are acknowledged as borderless and timeless, so trying to stuff them in a box will feel stifling
Consistency - Rules being broken, or others shamelessly gloating about how guidelines do not or should not apply to them; changing for change's sake, or changing and allowing it to seem like a "flavor of the month" initiative
Context - A lopsided focus on the future and the vision; skipping over debriefs or post mortems; saying things like "the past is the past — it is gone."
Deliberative - Being asked to do the rework that stemmed from someone else's hasty decisions; being put under pressure to share about your personal life
Developer - Focus on the work rather than those doing the work; celebrating mega achievements while forgetting to praise small improvements
Discipline - Casting a vision and failing to create a plan to support it; scattering focus broadly and disregarding questions about practical execution
Empathy - Placing a lopsided focus on data and disregarding emotions as lacking credibility or truth; telling or dictating rather than asking and expressing
Focus - Celebrating or requiring multitasking or constant task switching; interruptions while in the flow, including instant messaging or in-person interruptions
Futuristic - Preoccupation with the past; holding meetings in reaction to daily "fire drills" rather than getting ahead to the important vision of the future
Harmony - Allowing a tense work culture to fester; a team habit of water cooler talk or people gossiping about those not around
Ideation - Jumping to execution before exploring ideas and possibilities; shutting down the idea-generating phase fast / being too busy for creativity and innovation
Individualization - Heavily investing in weakness fixing, especially on performance reviews and development plans where the "work on being someone else" view is institutionalized; being glued to job descriptions or standard operating procedures
Includer - Showing there's a good ol' boys club you must be part of to get promoted or to get your ideas considered; forgetting stakeholders who want to be informed or involved
Input - Requiring the use of disappearing media like live stream that can't be tagged or saved for future use; irrelevant tools or unfindable/unsearchable resources on the job
Intellection - Being put under pressure to react in the moment; surface-level groupthink dominating the team's decision-making process
Learner - Being assigned to long-term maintenance of projects or products; stagnation
Maximizer - Focus only on quantity; launching before it’s ready
Positivity - Withholding appreciation with the belief that it's not worth giving unless it's a huge win or hard-won accomplishment; throwing out consistent pessimism and reality checks
Relator - Surface-level, obligatory small talk; trying to feign interest yet coming off with coldness or superficial interactions that lack authenticity
Responsibility - Being given false or padded deadlines; changing priorities and not being told that your project is no longer important (meanwhile you're off toiling)
Restorative - Fighting among the team rather than fixing the problem (letting the problem sprout new symptoms); avoiding conflict, and maintaining false harmony on the team
Self-Assurance - Being questioned for your decisions or thought process; forced collaborations when you already know exactly what direction this project needs to take
Significance - Being asked to sit on the sidelines while the team works on a highly purposeful project; being assigned work that doesn’t matter
Strategic - Ignoring or overlooking the downstream impact, especially when quick input could have been asked for; getting paralyzed in decision-making, especially on something already started
Woo - Being put on a small team with low social variety; solitude — this can happen working from home or in a work environment where people are quiet and keep to themselves
Your Non-Negotiable Values Are A Big Clue To Your Hot Buttons
Usually talents get offended or insulted by other people who have natural preferences that are different from yours. If someone takes it far enough to rub your values the wrong way - boom - your hot button has ignited. You're amp'd up quickly. It also happens if a teammate fail to see their actions have an impact on someone else (you!).
Funny enough, you can also insult your own talents if you have a "troublemaker strength" that speaks loudly and goes into overuse or mis-application.
These are slightly unusual ways of wording it, yet it's really all about knowing what pushes your hot buttons. If you clearly recognize what your non-negotiable values are, you can understand why certain situations make you red-line-hot while others brush the same thing off as no big deal.
This list of behaviors and work situations provides some examples of what could "insult" your talents. They're potential hot buttons. It's a list of things that might drive you bonkers at work. Pick 1-3 that really make you gnash your teeth and feel frustration. We call those "red liners" because they amp you up with negative emotion more easily than ordinary frustrations.
After you pick them, write down a strategy for how you can reframe the situation or handle it productively. By deciding in advance, you take a lot of the emotion, regret, and anxiety out of the equation. Here's an example where Sara, one of our facilitators, talks about it in the context of frustrating teammates.
Analysis paralysis
Avoidance of conflict
Being glued to job descriptions
Being on the sidelines
Bureaucracy & red tape
Change for change’s sake
Changing course before projects are finished
Cold or superficial interactions
Disappearing media like live stream
Everyone gets a trophy
Execution before exploring possibilities
False or padded deadlines
Fear of public scorecards
Focus on data when a story needs a voice
Focus on quantity
Focus on work & ignore *people* doing work
Forced collaborations
Forgetting stakeholders who will care
Good ‘ol boy’s club
Groupthink
Ignoring downstream impact
Impractical, “head in the clouds” thinking
Infighting rather than fixing
Interruptions while in flow
Investing in weaknesses
Isolation
Launching before it’s ready
Lopsided focus on data
Lopsided focus on the future
Low social variety
Maintenance of projects or products
Multitasking
Nasayers
Obsession with money & power
Obsolete tools & processes
Paralysis in decision-making
Pessimism & reality checks
Preoccupation with past
Pressure to react
Pressure to share about personal life
Pushing ethical boundaries
Questioning my decisions
Reactive meetings
Rehashing the past
Rework
Rule breaking
Same old, same old
Scattered focus
Shutting down ideas too fast
Shutting down of possibilities
Skipping over debriefs
Solitary time
Solitude
Stagnation
Sugar coating
Surface level small talk
Telling, dictating
Tense work culture
Un-communicated changes in priority
Unexplored assumptions
Visions without a plan
Water cooler talk
Wishy-washy opinions
Withholding of appreciation
Work that doesn’t matter
Work that serves egos over outcomes